Friends if you ever find a woman who asks you to play a game to get her or if she acts in a way where she is letting you believe that you have to go through a game to get her, you know what, she is trying to set a bar right in the beginning. She is trying to put it into your brain that she is superior to you and you are inferior to her. And it’s you who has to go through these different stages to get to her.
And if you fall for her game And if you start playing the game, and start trying to do all these different things to woo her you are proving her right and giving the power in her hands right in the beginning.
You need to understand, even if you get her, after going through all the hoopla hoops she will be the one who will keep dominating you directing you through out the relationship and you will have to conform to her orders, because you have already given your chords in her hands.
She has the power now, she knows you got through just anything to be with her and now she is your weakness, you yourself proved it to her by agreeing to play her game. Now she can play with you anyway she wants. She knows she is your weakness now. And now Through out the whole relationship she will be the one who will dominate she will be the one who will lead.
For a time being It may seam to you that after putting all that effort you have gained, you have won the girl but the reality is in your efforts to get the girl you have actually lost your own self respect, your freedom and your life. Because the chord is in her hands now.
You already handed over the power to her hands when you agreed to play the game that she set for you to get her. And hence now throughout the relationship you will have to make adjustments and changes as per her choice. The rest of your life is going to get wasted in pleasing her and conforming to her orders only.
You will not live your life anymore, you will do what she likes not what you like. You will change your plan for her. You will put away your own ambitions for her ambitions. You will live a life that she will set for you, not what you have always wanted to live.
Now you will have to put up with all her tantrums and drama. And she will bleed lots of energy out of you in that, you will lose your own direction of life, your own purpose.
So what you need to do, you have to immediately get away from all such women who are acting hard, who are making you to try very hard to get them. Who are playing these mind games with you. Always remember guys, 2 important things, first no women is worth chasing, no women worth your peace of mind. Second, there are plenty of women out there on this earth.
You just need to deal with those women only who don’t play these mind games with you, who really respect you for what you are and like you the way you are and for the life you are living. Your peace of mind matters more than any women. Put your energy into achieving your goals and enjoying your life. You must always be focusing on purpose which is bigger and greater.
Your purpose, your life, your freedom, your peace of mind must be the center of your life not any women. Never trade your own peace of mind your own freedom, your own purpose and your own life for anything.
Cut away all women who are depleting your energy and time, who are distracting you from your goals, who wants to take control of your life and you deal with only those women only who complement you, who support you, who respect you, your goals, your life and not the one who is their just to fulfill her wants and desires through you.
