Well, This message is specifically for all the ladies specially young women. Please stop taking everything very lightly on the name of becoming very modern. First try to find out what does being modern actually means in true sense. Being modern doesn’t mean you start showing men down. And start devalueing them. There is nature behind we Men and women. There are some natural instincts behind all of us.
We men have particular instincts and behaviour because of this nature because of the way we have evolved and you women have some natural instincts in you because of the way you have evolved. You can not start just taking everything lightly and start behaving very carelessly with just anyone.
You girls you must understand 2 important things about us Man. First, For us Man our ego is everything, if you will hurt our ego in some way we will become beast and we will hurt you. Yes.. For us our ego is above everything and if some one will hurt our ego we will do anything to him or her without caring about it’s result. No matter what will happen to us but we will do something anything to take vengeance from the person who have hit our ego.
Girls you must understand, Our safety is in our hands.. a lot. And thus you ladies always behave very cautiously with us. You don’t know what we will turn into if you will show us down unnecessarily for not doing anything. There is a way of behaving outside in public, there is a way of behaving with us men. You must get some senses and stop hurting our ego. Because Then otherwise you never know what an emotionally and egoistically hurt man will do.
Second, Sex is a very powerful force. Yes, you can not just give fake hopes of sex to some man and then run away from him without giving him sex. You must learn to behave very cautiously with us. Stop trying to act over smartly with us. You must not do anything to wake up that sleeping sexual beast in us. Or if you do.. Then give us the sex. You can not just run away without satisfying the beast you have woken up. Otherwise that hungry unsatisfied beast will do some sort of harm to you. And then you can’t blame us Men for it.
Either you behave very sensibly with us keeping yourself in control or if you want to act smart then be ready to quench the thirst of sex that you have woken up in us. Otherwise again you never know what a man will do under the influence of that sexual beast.
Girls as i just told to you our safety is in our hands. Others people’s reaction, how other’s will behave to us, a lot of it, depends on us, depends on our behaviour, how we behave with others. If we know how to act in public and how to behave with others. We can save ourself from lots of unnecessary problems.
If you know how to behave with us men, many of us in fact majority of us will not be a problem for you ladies. And still if some man does something wrong to you then he must be punished.
I am also not favouring any wrong men here. If there is some man who unnecessarily teases you, troubles you, hurts you, cause any sort of harm to you.. for no reason.. then he must also be punished very harshly however at the same time you girls.. you must also learn how to behave properly outside in public and with men.
Being a man I’m telling you. Listen to it very carefully. Two things. First, You can not hurt our ego because if you will then we will not be responsible for all the mishap that will happen. Second, You can not just give us fake hope of sex and then run away from us. And there is also no such thing as platonic men women friendship.. No, think thousand of times before getting along with some man and then once you have decided to be with some man, to be his friends and to be in his company then be ready to give him sex.
As long as you want to stay with the guy give him sex and once If you want to leave you can leave then. Just because you were getting physical with him for the time you had been with him. There wouldn’t be much problem even if you leave him. But if you cook some games in your brain and try to use the guy. You keep him only hanging throughout while being with him. Talking to him, demanding him to do favours, taking his attention and then just run away without giving sex to him. He will then come after you to hurt you in some way then again you can not blame him for it.
Of course I agree we men must also learn to act more sensibly and whatever the case may be we must not hurt anybody physically. But you girls must understand at the same time, it requires a very high level of education to suppress our evolutionary natural instincts. It’s not easy for all the men to reach to that level.
All of them are not that much educated. All of them are not reading books and following spirituality. And thus it is very important for you girls to act very sensibly and very cautiously with men. Because all of them are not that much sensible and many of them… Specially if you will provoke them…. will create problems for you under the influence of their very inherent and evolutionary instincts.
