Crime stories involving women—like the recent Sonam case—have taken the internet by storm, sparking endless discussions on platforms like X and news channels. Why do these stories grip us so tightly? In this deep dive, we explore the psychology behind our fascination, challenge societal myths about gender, and unpack a tragic case to reveal lessons for men, women, and parents. Let’s uncover the truth and learn how to navigate life smarter and safer.
The Psychology of Shock: Why Female Crime Stories Go Viral
Crime is as old as humanity, yet stories involving women committing crimes hit differently. Why? Society has long painted men as violent and prone to wrongdoing, so when a man commits a crime, it’s just another headline. But when a woman is involved, it shakes us to our core. For generations, media and culture have portrayed women as virtuous, innocent, and almost divine—think of the “goddess” archetype we’ve been fed since childhood. When a woman acts in a flawed, human way, it defies these expectations, sparking shock and curiosity.
This dissonance drives the virality of such stories. We’re not shocked by the expected; we’re stunned when our beliefs are challenged. To understand this better, I recommend The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, which explores how societal perceptions shape behavior, and Games People Play by Eric Berne, a classic on the psychological games people play in relationships and society. These books offer insights into why we react so strongly to unexpected human behaviors.
As we begin to see women as humans—flawed and capable of both good and evil, just like men—these stories will lose their shock value. They’ll become just another headline. Until then, they’ll continue to dominate our feeds and conversations.
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The Sonam Case: A Tragic Lesson
Let’s look at the Sonam case, a story that’s been trending heavily. Reports suggest Sonam was set to marry a man but didn’t want to proceed—perhaps she was interested in someone else, valued her independence, or simply wasn’t ready. Instead of communicating her feelings, she allegedly conspired with four others to kill the man, an innocent person with no prior connection to her or her accomplices. This tragedy highlights critical lessons:
- Parental Responsibility: Parents play a huge role in guiding their children, but control must be balanced. If Sonam’s parents knew she wasn’t ready for marriage, forcing her into it was a mistake. The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck is a great read for parents and individuals alike, emphasizing discipline and responsibility in decision-making. When children grow into independent adults, parents should support their choices, not pressure them into unwanted paths.
- Sonam’s Choices: Sonam had options—she could have been honest with the man or her family, working to call off the marriage. Instead, she allegedly chose a drastic, irreversible path. For women facing similar pressures, clear communication is key. Don’t let societal expectations push you into harmful decisions.
- The Role of the Four Men: The weakest link in this story is the four men who agreed to commit the crime at Sonam’s request. If they acted for money, that’s one thing, but if they were swayed by a desire to please her or fell for a “helpless” persona, it reveals a deeper issue. Men are often conditioned to sacrifice for women without questioning, a dynamic explored in No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover. This book is a must-read for men looking to break free from people-pleasing tendencies and build self-respect.
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Breaking Free from Harmful Narratives
This case, and others like it, underscores the need to rethink gender stereotypes. Men aren’t inherently evil, and women aren’t inherently perfect. Both are human, capable of mistakes and wrongdoing. Here’s how we can move forward:
- For Parents: Guide your children when they’re young, but respect their autonomy as adults. Forcing them into decisions they’re not ready for can lead to resentment or worse. Support their choices and read The Road Less Traveled to understand the power of disciplined decision-making.
- For Women: If you’re not ready for something like marriage, speak up. You have the power to set boundaries and communicate clearly. Don’t let pressure lead to destructive choices.
- For Men: Stop believing it’s your duty to sacrifice for a woman or follow her lead blindly. There’s no glory in losing yourself. No More Mr. Nice Guy offers practical steps to reclaim your confidence and prioritize your values. Always question what you’re being asked to do, especially if it feels wrong.
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Toward a Smarter, More Aware Society
My mission isn’t to sensationalize crime but to help you become the best version of yourself—smarter, more aware, and ready to navigate the world with clarity. By understanding why stories like Sonam’s captivate us and learning from their lessons, we can break free from outdated stereotypes and make better choices. Let’s stop being shocked by human flaws and start building a society rooted in accountability, communication, and critical thinking.
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