Well this blog post may offend some girls, but my intention is not to offend anybody I just want to make boys realise something. Something that they should have realised by now, but they haven’t.
I just want to tell these boys that, Girls have this habit of talking and talking. They need somebody to talk to all the time. They are free, they have lots of free time and they need somebody to pass their time with. They just have lots of things to talk about, My friends, my relatives, my colleagues and this and that. And all the stuff.
So They are just killing their time with you, may be on WhatsApp or on phone or sitting at some place with you. but what are you doing? I mean, You are just giving your valuable time to them when you can use it all to build a life for yourself. When you can use it to build a fortune for yourself.
And why? Why are you even doing it? I know, you are doing it all for some fake hopes. But you don’t know that They have many other friends like you they can call anytime to talk or ping anytime to chat.
Anyways, see, it’s ok it’s a girl thing nobody can do anything about that, they are like this naturally. We all know girls love to talk and they also love attention, it’s ok. They need friends for that. And there is nothing wrong in all this but from their side.
You tell me, why are you doing this? What are you getting out of it?, acting like just another girl wasting your time on chatting and talking and listening about somebody else’s life all the time. you must ask yourself who you are? Are you a man or a girl? And if you are a men then why are you acting like these girls just killing your time talking and chatting uselessly unnecessarily all the time.
And why are you even making yourself their punching bags, or a dustbin where thay just put their full day crap. What do you get out of talking to them about their life, listening about the things going in their life. Listening about their friends relatives etc. What are you getting out of it?
I mean seriously are you this free? Is everything sorted in your life? Don’t you have more worthful and useful thing to do in your life? You tell me what do you get out of it? Don’t you think that you can make better use of your time? Instead of just killing it listening to some crap going on in one’s life.
Common guys i think, it’s the time when you take a step back and think introspect why are you doing it and what are you getting out of it? It’s the time when you should start asking yourself, is it the best thing you can do with your time or is it the best thing you want for your life?….. Ask
