Friends, Chivalry is long dead. If you are giving her free meals, offering her fee drinks, complimenting her with the hope that she will give you her love someday you have got it all wrong.
Every time you take her for free meals, bring her free gifts and free flowers, pedestalize her, she takes you for granted. If you want these girls to find you any attractive, Never spend even a single penny on them, unless they earn it from you.
Stop spending money on these girls. Because You are doing it out of your love, to express your feeling to them nevertheless they are taking you as some fool. You are loving them from inside, they are laughing on you from inside.
Friends Things have changed with time, these days women are free independent and are safe. They no more need to be scared of being with men obviously because men are no more violent. They have been taught to respect women and to be a gentlemen. And women know this very well, she knows if I cut all contact with this men after being with him for a time, he won’t come after me to hurt me.
And this change is working for them, women are making full use of this. They have number of man chasing them, making them feel special by doing all those different things.
Friends, women take attraction in a totally different way than what you have been taught growing up. They don’t love men who love them, they love men who love themselves. They don’t love men who value them, they love men who value themselves.
They never go for chivalrous men, they go for men who are aloof, busy and indifferent, a man who is a player, a little asshole. Guys who act a little assholish stand better chance with women than those who play safe. If you can’t irritate her, pull her legs, make her angry, belittle her, and make her fear you. You can never generate any interest in her.
Friends, A Woman always like to date up, when you start faking being too nice with her and start doing all flattery first it makes you stand among all the other beta orbiters who are trying hard to get her second it gives her a feeling that she is superior to you and consequently she loses her interest in you. However, when you stay real and don’t try to pretend to be a fake guy she notices you. When you chase her she takes you for granted, but when you ignore her she starts noticing you.
You have been told that the guy has to put work to earn a woman but in reality it’s totally opposite of it. You need to make her work for you. She won’t stick to you if you put work to get her or keep her, she will stick to you if you put work on yourself to improve your own life and when she will see you growing, improving and enjoying your life, she will develop interest for you.
Friends When a woman knows you can leave her anytime and she is not your first priority she starts appreciating you more. But when you start holding a red carpet for her it gives her a feeling that you don’t hold any value. and remember this women don’t like low value men, they always prefer men who shows he holds value by his action.
In movies they mostly show that a women is going up and men are trying to hang on to her but in reality the story of attraction is different, women never feel attraction towards guys who are trying to hang on to her, who are acting very kind and generous. in reality, women like to hang on to a guy who is going up.
In reality, if by your action you can give her a feeling that you hold more value than her, and you don’t need her, you are already complete and happy even without her, she will come chase you.
