Friends What Bollywood teaches us is “Do slavery and then Hope for getting love in return”. However, How it really works in reality.. She gives you love first.. obviously if she finds you any interesting and then she hopes for getting love in return. All the men, who go by Bollywood logic cry and repent later. But Those who just go with how it naturally works never feel cheated.
Friends, Women don’t have remorse for weak men. And all the men who are trying to win women’s love are weak, women understand it very well. When you are trying hard to win her love They all understand what you are trying for and hence they don’t feel any bad about you. They all know your intentions.
The attempts that you are making to win her love give her impression that you are a weak men who is ready to go to any extreme just to get love from a women. She knows you are doing it all just to fulfill your motives. She understands its very well that you are faking it, this is not who you originally are, you are just acting somebody else to get love from her and she can sense it very well.
Though we all men ultimately want sex from women, I mean nobody can deny it, it’s an universal fact, in fact even all women very well know this… they all know that we all men wake up with a hard on every morning yet it’s about what kind of feeling you give to her. What kind of impression you make on her.
If you make her feel that you are trying to over smart her and you are doing all that flattery because you are hoping for love in return she understands your intention very well and thus don’t give you love and don’t even feel pity for you. In fact she even may make fun of you. She may even laugh on you with her friends.
Your attempts and flattery gives her a feeling that you are trying to fool her. And nobody likes to get fooled by anybody, she understands everything very well. And hence all those who are trying to win her love are going to get rejected.
And this is why doing less is always more in case of women. Because when you do more and more to win her and even when you are with her she gets this feeling that you are a needy creepy weak men who is ready to bow down to any level to get love from a women. And no women likes a needy man.
On the opposite of that when you do less she can sense your strength, it gives her a feeling that you are a cool and strong guy who is not afraid of walking away from her even though you like her. She can sense that you are a men who knows how to keep his and her respect, the men who is genuine, the men who is not faking it for sex.
And this is the reason why men who are chasing women and flattering them so much after what they learn from these movies always always fail in getting love from them. Women never give love to the one who is trying hard to win her love she gives love to the one she respects. The men who is not afraid of saying No when he doesn’t agree with something, who is not ready to become a yes men, the men who has a backbone. the men who is not ready to trade his self respect just for her love.
