Let’s read 12 most common excuses that women make to us to fool us. Women are born actors and they are master of manipulation. In your life you may find many women who will have no intention of giving you love, still they will try to play you to use you and your time. This blog post will make you clear that you are being played by the girl. Let’s continue with the 12 most common lies they tell to us.
1. मुझे पढ़ना है अभी अब… मेरा career बनाना है. ( I want to focus on my career) – then why you even want friendship? Don’t you think you should better focus on your studies then? One less friend would mean even lesser distraction.
2. पापा नहीं मानेंगे (My father won’t agree) – then why didn’t you tell this right in the beginning? Didn’t you know what that boy was with you for? Why you didn’t tell to him this when you were chatting with him late nights and asking him for favours? She suddenly realises this after walking all over you. She knows it’s the time to get apart now. You are no more needed.
3. You are more than friend – then why you are so afraid of giving him the treatment of more than friend? When she tells you this She just want free favours and attention and validations. And sometimes She wants you to stick to her as a backup of her real boyfriend. She wants you so that she can talk to you about everything that she can’t talk about with her boyfriend.
4. मे अब मिलने नी आऊंगी बस बात करूंगी (I won’t come to meet now, will only talk on phone) – फिर बात भी क्यूँ करूंगी! When you don’t have time to meet someone in person then why to waste his time on phone? But… you know what… it just feels good to have one more fan in my phone.
5. I like you, (आप बहुत अच्छे हो) – now you keep giving me free attention and validations. Whenever I will be free, I will ping you to kill my time and listen to all the compliments from you. I want you in my life to enjoy a little flirt time. Or may be sometimes to get free food and gifts.
6. अब आज mood नहीं है मिलने का (today I am not in mood of meeting) – then why did you promise to come to meet? What has happened in just 24 hrs? She uses this excuse most often to flake. What she means is even Though I am not really into you but I also don’t want to lose you. I want you to linger around me because I may need you someday.
7. आज माँ के साथ मार्केट जाना है (I have some urgent work at market with Mom) – the day you ask her to come to date, she gets some very urgent job to do on the very same day at the very same time. Something so urgent that she just can’t postpone it.
8. I have a boyfriend – what she means is I am not interested, not even ready for friendship.
9. I am single – chase me, make me feel special to win me. Though I already know what kind of guy I am waiting for to get into relationship with , what’s the problem in entertaining myself a little with you! Or sometimes may be she is already in relationship with somebody she just still in mood of entertaining herself from you.
10. I need more time – what she means is even though you are cute enough to be friend but you still don’t match the imagination I have in my mind to get physical with. Or may be she is already getting physical with some other men, she just doesn’t want to lose you as a friend.
11. I have to cancel tonight got something urgent to do – what she means is that she has got a better date, may be somebody she has been eyeing on suddenly has got agreed to go On a date. When women really likes you she never cancels date.
12. You deserve someone better – what she actually means is I deserve some one better.
Friends A women is making all these excuses to keep number of beta orbitors around her. Don’t think she doesn’t understand anything, she knows what you boys are with her for and what you boys are making her feel special for, she is just acting innocent.
So the first thing is always always notice her actions not her words. If she isn’t acting interested, no matter what she is telling you she is not into you. She is just wasting your time.
A women normally keeps number of beta orbitors around her for number of reasons.
For free attention
Free validations and
Many times for Free favors
And sometimes women also keep some of the beta orbitors around her Because she is always thinking what if the guy I am currently into relationship with breaks up with me, then what? Women can’t stay alone, that’s her worst fear.
If you boys can understand this much only that a women can’t stay alone and she craves men’s attention so much that it’s hard for her to live without that, you can start winning the game.
Start using your attention as currency and never spend it on any women who doesn’t Conform you and treats you special.
So guys those were 12 excuses that women often make to keep us as one of her orbitors. So now next time you listen any one of them it is time to let her go. Immediately stop giving her attention.
Because if you still keep messaging her even after listening to any of those excuses, it’s you who lose the game because she won’t mind one more fan one more orbitors in her collection.
You better get busy In your life. She isn’t in you, she will just waste your time and women never minds it she never minds leeching on your precious time.
