When i was in my school college days i used to wonder a lot. I always used to think, when we men find any attractive women and we like her we feel like giving love to her, we feel like having sex with her but why the women are not same. Even when they like the guy still they don’t want to give him her love. Why is it so?
I mean if there is some person whom you ladies don’t like then it is very understandable in that situation. However, when you like the person, you are trying to be his friends, you praise him, you find him attractive still when it comes to have sex with him you repel, you try to run away from him.
I mean seriously it all used to be very surpurising to me. But now after so many years at this mature age i have got my answer. It is not like women don’t love sex and they don’t want to do it. The thing is they put so much of value in their body that they don’t want to offer it until they find proper value for it.
Yes sex in girl’s eyes is always transactional. And she is always calculating in her mind what value this xyz guy can provide to me in return of my body. Even if the guy is good and seams attractive to her. Still, she puts so much of value in her body that she is not going to give it to anybody until she assures the kind of return she is expecting to get for it.
That return can be in different forms. Either she is expecting money or may be emotional ride from a guy. Either she will give sex for money to some guy who can fulfill her materialistic needs or may be provide her adventurous lifestyle or may be to some guy for her own emotional and carnal satisfaction; the satisfaction of being with a high value charismatic guy who looks good and has charming personality.
So guys this is what it is. Yes, it is not easy to change the world, this society, the centuries, old human evolution. Sex in women’s eyes is always transactional and if you want sex from some women be ready to provide her value of some sort. Either be ready to provide her a lifestyle or develop a kind of personality that she desires to be with, she feels proud of being in your company.
That’s it guys this is what you need to do. Be very realistic and learn to accept this world the way it is, accept the humans as they realistically are. Give up those childish expectations that have been induced into your brain through fake movies. No matter how nice you will act to some women, it won’t change centuries old evolution in her. No matter what … she will always go with her innate inherent original female traits in her.
All you young boys are unnecessarily wasting your precious time on these attention seeking bitches. They are just satisfying their need of getting attention from opposite gender through you. By being your friends only. You boys are nothing more than a puppet for them. Yes the toys that she just use to fulfill her desires of entertaining herself or may be just using you as some bot to share whatever she has in her mind, to fulfill her desire of talking with somenone.
Guys, stop wasting your time in dreaming about fairy tales and building castles in the air. Unless you be realistic and start building some sort of value in your life you will not get sex from any women. As I just told you it is not easy to change the world. It’s better if you understand this world better and start working on yourself to operate better in this world. Use all your precious time in building yourself, in turning yourself into a valuable guy and then you see all these women coming after you trying to impress you. And be ready to pay the price also. Nothing comes free in this world. Either you pay the price or turn your back towards something which you can’t afford.
Second thing you need to do is to start putting as much of value in yourself in your time and company as much any woman put in her body. Yes .. as woman, you also don’t give yourself, your valuable time, your company to just anyone who is not willing to give you proper returns on your time. Be ruthless with your time and make every second worth. Your future depends on where you are putting your time today.
If their is some women who is just using you to get free attention from you and not willing to pay you the price, you immediately just turn your back towards her and get yourself busy in makin yourself even better so that you can afford even better ….. better life, better women , better comfort & luxury and better everything.
It may sound very harsh but this is what it is. This is how this world is. You can’t change it, you can only work on yourself. You can only work to make yourself better with time. You do everything within your capacity to make yourself afford better things in life. Or just settle in your mediocre lifestyle. And Keep getting humiliated by those bitches, who may be calling you their friends but you don’t know they are just using you for free favors and attention only. You are nothing more than means of entertainment and emotional tampon for them.
