Guys, If you are afraid of getting used by girls on the name of love or sex. I mean There are so many women who show fake interest in men and set dates with them only to get free food and to get free gifts from them. Many times they do it to get free attention also.
Well, I am about to tell you the way to save yourself from such manipulative and hungry witches. And the trick is to gauge her level of interest in you before even setting a date. And the way to do it is to set yourself as a sexual being before her right from the beginning.
Right from the beginning when some girl starts interacting with you, you talk about sexual stuff with her. Whenever she interacts always bring something sexual in the conversation. And notice how she reacts to it. How interestingly she takes your sexual talks.
Either she will respond positively or negatively. If she starts making excuses and starts trying to gaslight you for bringing sexual stuff in your talks obviously she is not into you. She is just trying to use you for free attention or may be for free food and gifts only. You can take yourself away from that girl.
However, if she responds positively you are good to go. Here you have a girl who is really interested in having sex with you and going on a date with her will not be a waste of time.
Guys, If right from the beginning you portray yourself to her as somebody who loves sex, there will never be sex less dates. She already knows you are somebody who would have sex every time you meet her and she will come to meet you only if she also desires sex with you. And if she is somebody who doesn’t want to have sex with you, she will not come at the first place. Because now she already knows what going on a date with you actually means.
Another benefit of this; of talking about sexual stuff with her right from the beginning and setting yourself as a sexual being before her is, just because you have already opened her and brought her to a level of comfort with you, it will not feel awkward to get physical with her when you will be with her on date. There will be a pre conceived consent to it.
Now, many of you guys may say It may creep her out, If you start talking about sex to her right from the first interaction. I mean you may say talking about sex and sexual stuff right from the beginning may portray you as some creep before her well guys there is a way to do that also I mean to not portray yourself as a creep. And the trick here is to never text or call her from your side.
Yes… you never intiate any talks or conversation with women from your side. Wait for their text or call and when they start interacting with you, you can always bring sexual talks into the discussion. It’s she who is trying to intiate a talk with you, it’s she who called you or started texting you, you are just being a man. Man naturally loves sex and You are just acting your gender. And thus there is nothing to feel awkward about.
Actually guys the men who chase women for sex are creep and not the men who talk or do sex with them. You must know the difference. When you start trying to contact or chase women from your side. When you start texting them calling them from your side it is what portray you as a creep. But if you are somebody who can maintain distance and who is not chasing them you will never creep them out.
I mean it’s not You who are calling them and texting them. It’s not you who is trying to initiate a conversation with them. You also don’t force them to come to meet. You are just in your frame and not showing any desperation from your side. it will help in setting a positive frame before her. As i just told to you. It’s not one who talks or does sex with them is creep it’s one who chase them and force them for it is the creep. You better keep this difference in your mind.
It’s not you who is trying to contact them and trying to initiate the conversation with them. It’s they who are calling you or texting you or trying to do the conversation so you can not be blamed for it.
Boys, Even these women know men love sex. Even they know if i will talk to a man or if will go to meet him. He will talk and do sex. It’s you boys who does the mistake by trying to portray yourself as some nice gentlemen kind of guy who respects women and their boundaries.
Guys women just act as a mirror just because you have started portraying yourself as somebody who may be takes sex negatively or may be who is shy of sex she also starts acting as somebody who doesn’t take sex positively. And by not bringing sex into the equation it’s you who give her an opportunity to use you.
But guys when you will portray yourself as a sexual being before a woman there is a huge chance she will also start talking about sex and actually start having sex with you very casually and positively. And even if she doesn’t there is nothing to feel bad about. You have just saved yourself a hell lot of time and from unnecessary stress and disturbance.
There is no need to take that woman any seriously anymore. There is no need to go on a date with that girl. You already know she is not taking you positively. You do not need to waste your time and money. More importantly your time. You can always use your time more productively rather than giving it to some one who has nothing to offer to you.
Guys, The girls who find you interesting or who needs you for something will herself call or text you, will try to come after you, will try to develop a friendship with you. But girls have this habit of using us men on the name of friendship. Many of the girls try to take benefits and favor from us men without involving sexually with us. There are many girls who try to make their means through men without involving sex into the equation and it’s we men who give them this opportunity by acting very childish before them, by trying to portray ourself as some nice gentleman.
Boys, stay true to your gender. You are a man and man does sex. Man loves sex. If there is some woman who does not want to involve herself sexually with you, she better keep away from you. And being a man it is on you to test her. Because If you will fail in setting the right frame before her, she will not mind using you. Being a Man it is your resposibilty to protect yourself from manipulative witches and time leachers.
