So guys as we all know its friendship day today. I have a quick friendship day message for you. I think when we are going to be friends with other people there are few important things that we all must keep in mind:
1. Never get influenced by your friends. Read Learn observe experience and anticipate and do what’s beneficial for you, not what your friends are doing or asking you to do.
2. Your time and energy is very useful don’t waste it on so called friends specially those who don’t value you and respect your boundaries. Better stay alone than in bad company.
3. You will find many people whose motive will be to use you on the name of friendship. Stay away from such people, they don’t deserve your attention. Never let anyone use you. People who criticise you for your shortcomings and mistakes are better than those sycophants whose intentions are just to fulfill their motives through you.
4. Never be with people who can’t do favor for favor. If you are giving love caring respect and attention to someone the one must return it with full enthusiasm. If there are some people who are there just to take and take only never to return the favors, stop wasting your time and emotions on such people.
So always keep these 4 important points in your mind before allowing anyone to enter into your space. Otherwise it’s always best to enjoy your own company and be your own friend. Your emotions must not weaken you as a man.
If you keep things light and keep entering just anyone in your life you will lose your worth very soon and People will stop taking you seriously.. If you let just anyone influence your habits you will lose your discipline. And it will obviously affect your life.
Nobody should be allowed to use you as a carpet and nobody should be allowed to distract you from path and purpose
Respect and admiration begins from yourself. If you respect yourself then only others will. If you value yourself than only others will. And if you find some people who are not valuing you as man ; your time emotions energy , you must remind them with your actions or if need be sometimes directly in words.
