Guys with time as so many things have changed and with so many things even women have changed and with the changing times it is very necessary that we men also must change ourselves. We must change how we take women and how we deal with them. I am going to tell you the better way of dealing with modern women in this video.
So, the very first thing you need to learn about modern women is No woman is single. Even if a woman tells you she is single don’t believe her because she is just lying to you. she is leing to you to give you an illusion of oneitis and most probably just to play a game with you to entertain herself.
Guys these days women have an army of men in their mobile phone. Instagram, WhatsApp, Snapchat, Facebook, dating sites, guys women have never been this much bombarded with options ever before.
So, the very first thing you need to know about modern women is she is not single, and she has too many options available for her. And thus, even if she tells you or try to show to you that she is single, and you are the only guy she is talking to, never believe her words.
Even an ugly looking chick has 100s of men in her dms and inbox. And thus, this is very first thing you need to tell yourself and need to change yourself accordingly that A woman is never single, and you are not the only guy she is taking to.
Second thing you need to tell yourself is never take any woman seriously. As I just told to you, just because Women has plenty of options available these days, she also doesn’t want to stick to one guy only. Why? Because different men bring different benefits for her. Women know men are caring and helpful by nature and when you can have different men of different benefits why to leave any?
Anyways thus in such case being a man if you start taking any woman seriously you will hurt yourself. I mean, she may also act in a way and try to show to you that she really likes and loves you, because obviously she doesn’t want to leave you. You might fall for her fake words and start attaching unnecessary expectations with her and then if suddenly you will come to know that there are 10 20 more other guys, she is giving equal amount of time, frankeness and friendliness to, you will be hurt and thus it is better if you know this secret of women right before falling for this game of theirs and stay solid like rock with them without involving too much of emotions and holding unnecessary expectations from them.
Now this is another important thing you need to know. Earlier when women didn’t have so much of options available for her, she used to expect all attention and caring from one man only. But these days her dms are full of it. And resultantly, she doesn’t value too much of caring and chivalry anymore. It doesn’t even mean anything for her. In fact, these days just because so many men are already putting in efforts to win her. If you will also try to do the same, she will not value it much and she will put you in “Another creep in the list” list. Too much of caring will portray you as a clingy guy. and they fear the clingy guys the most.
These days Women prefer men who can challenge them and are not easily available for them. Men who don’t submit to them easily. Men who can stay aloof and distant. Because it builds a certain amount of mystery and curiosity about that guy. Women love men who can very easily walk away from them. Who don’t build any unnecessary emotional attachment with them.
Guys, as soon as any girl looks at you she immediately scans you to put in either of the two categories whether you are a cool and strong headed guy or you are a weak needy kind of guy. If you give her boyfriend or husband vibes she will immediately take herself away from you. On the other hand if she gets the player kind of energy and vibes from you, then you stand better chance with her.
She knows no matter what she does with you, you will not cling on to her. You will never be a burden on her. You will not flinch even a bit even if she moves ahead in her life and cut all her contacts with you.
Like everybody else women also don’t want any unnecessary baggage or burdens. They also want to stay free. And therefore, the guys who act hard and show mental coolness always win over guys who are putting in efforts to win her and giving her very beta energy. As I just told to you, she doesn’t want a guy who will cling on to her, it will work in your favor if you give her a feeling that even if she fucks you, you still stay detached.
This is the most important thing you need to learn is to stay away from her and not to build any emotional attachment with her. Never Chase them. Never be too available to them. Never act needy and desperate with them. Never hold any long-term expectations from them. Just stay cool in every situation and be emotionally strong and stable as a rock. And never contact them too much. You do not need to find out where is she? what is she doing? If she wants to, she will herself call to Inform you. And even if she doesn’t. In fact Even if she stops calling you totally it should not make any effect on you.
So, the two things. First, no women are single. They have army of men in their phone. Second, they don’t value caring and chivalry anymore. They prefer men who are not clingy and needy and who are solid like rock. Who can walk away from them any moment of time.
Now the third important thing to know about women. Gone are the days when women used to stay shy and used to fear approaching men. These days it is not like this. If some woman somewhere finds you attractive or interesting she will herself approach you. However, being a woman many of them will try to friendzone you.
Because first thing… for women male attention is more important than sex. I am not saying she doesn’t enjoy sex. Women also enjoy sex, but the thing is they crave men’s attention more than actual sex. You all must know this one difference between men and women. We men do everything to win sex from women whereas Women give sex to men to win his attention.
She craves and enjoys male attention as much as we men enjoy sex. And thus she may try to friendzone you to win your attention without giving you sex as it’s a very human instinct to try to get more for less and thus she may also try to do that with you. She may also try to get that male attention from you without giving you sex.
Being a man it is your responsibility to get sex from her. Being a man you need to make sure that you don’t let any woman be your friend without She getting physical with you. Being a man you need to make sure you never let any woman get your attention without she giving you sex. You never do a deal which keeps you in loss. You never give them what they crave for without getting from them what you crave for.
So, what you need to do. As soon as some woman starts showing interest in you and start trying to build friendship with you. You start putting in efforts to escalate for sex, immediately. Show her your intention right from the beginning without wasting much of the time.
Guys, they all, the women, they know how much we men love sex still many of them try to keep most of us men in their friendzone. And you do a huge mistake if you stay in their friend’s list only and don’t try to escalate.
You must know this secret of women that they love male attention as much as we love sex. And No woman can do without men. Now, it is up to you how much you make her pay for your company and attention. And if she really needs you and likes you, believe me, she will give sex to you. However, it will depend on how much she needs you or likes you. And how easily you fall for her. If you will get available to her for free without making her give sex to you. It will be your lose.
Another thing is you need to make sure from your side that you need to show your intentions to her without making her believe that you are a creep and needy like other men. And the way to do that is to become least available to her. Yes keep getting aloof and away from them. Keep in giving them time and space to miss you. I would recommend you never text her or call her from your side ever. Be in your frame and busy in your life all the time. It will show to her that you don’t need her and you don’t miss her and you are not desperate for her.
And Now the ball will be in her court. Obviously it’s women who are the gatekeeper of sex and you have also left it in her hand, by showing her your intention of sex and not chasing her from your side at the same time. You are not going after her. You are not forcing her for anything. Now, If she really needs you she really like you she will come and give sex to you. You have already showed to her, she needs to do sex with you to be in your company. Moreover your cool and calm way of dealing with her will also make you stand apart from many other guys who try hard to win women’s company and start troubling them for it.
On the contrary to it if in case she doesn’t need you that much or like you that much then in that case obviously she will not go for sex. And just because you have not built any emotional attachment with her. Just because you have already stated aloof and distant It will not affect you at all.
Now another important thing that you need to understand here. Being a man, you do not need to depend on one woman only for your physical wants. Yes, as you know it is not easy to win and then keep a woman with you these days. Women are free and independent and she can have a change of mind and can decide to leave you any day any time it is very compulsory for us men to build a very indifferent and stoic attitude towards them.
You never give too much of importance to just one girl only. You never build too intense emotional attachment and don’t ever depend on just one girl only. Like all these modern women you also keep your options open and be very casual with quenching your booty call wherever whenever with whoever you can. Like these women you also keep your options open and ready.
So in the end if i summarize everything.
First. No women is single. They all have army of men in their phone.
Second. Never take any women seriously.
Third. She will try to friendzone you. Being a man it’s upto you to show to her your intention of sex. It’s you who will have to make sure that you will not be available to her without sex.
Fourth. Never make any woman the center of your life. Never get too dependent on one women only for anything. Like them You also Keep your options open and be ready to quench your thirst for sex wherever whenever with whoever you can.
