Guys do you really think she likes it when you act too obsessed with her. Do You think it is romantic to keep your eyes on her all the time, to talk to her too much, and to act very emotionally before her as they always tell you to do in movies.
Well guys i must tell you.. She doesn’t like a guy who is sharing everything with her and who is showing his emotional vulnerabilities before her. Guys, No woman like to mother her man. And Nobody likes somebody always hovering around him or her. If you are acting too concerned about her, you are just creeping her out. You are doing a mistake. She doesn’t like a man who is always keeping his eyes on her and policing her all the time. She doesn’t like a man who is emotionally weak and talks too much.
She doesn’t want a little cry baby in her life. She doesn’t want a man who is so insecure about himself. I mean seriously tell me why are you after her all the time? what will happen when your girl will go with somebody else. Will you not be able to get another woman in your life. Seriously are you so insecure about yourself. Don’t you have any confidence in you. Is she the only girl on the earth.
Then tell me why are you acting so stupid? why do you want to know where is she? With whom is she? What is she doing? Why are you so concerned about all this? Is she the only girl who is impressed by you? Seriously, have you not been able to build any value in your life? Have you not been able to develop a personality around you? Which can impress and bring more girls to you.
Have you not been able to create any hopes around you which can keep her stick to you? Then what are your fears? Why are you policing her all the time? Why do you want to know about her location and who is she with all the time? Why are you acting so stupid? Tell me… Tell me what are you so afraid of?
Guys you are a man you need to learn to act more manly. A man don’t depend on anybody for anything. He knows how to arrange things for himself. How to manage his life without anyone. A man does not simp for love, he knows how to win it. He does not need to prove his love to somebody to keep her in his life. No, guys, it’s woman who need us more and it’s their job to prove their worth to us. It’s their job to please us to keep us with them. Yes, simping is a very women thing.
Boys, It’s women who simp for us to keep us in their life. It’s women who keep us happy and pleases us to keep us in their life. You have been fed a very wrong narrative of relationship. Tell me.. What are you afraid of? Why are you acting too concerned about her? What will happen? She will leave you for someone else? Seriously? Is that your fear?
Why don’t you just Let her Go, if she wants to. Why don’t you focus more on building yourself more and to improve yourself so that more girls come after you, more girls simp for you, more girls chase you, more girls try to win your company. Guys, there are plenty of girls on this earth to make love to. And I mean it when i say this. Literally there are plenty of girls in this world. You do not need to worry too much about just one.
Guys, I am telling you All these movies tv and songs, it all has brainwashed you very badly and turned you so weak. You have been fed a very wrong narrative of relationship. You need to realise your true value. And need to fix your attitude towards girls. In fact You need to fix your whole mindset towards relationship. It’s not you who keep them happy to keep them with you. It’s they who keep us happy to keep us with them. They are the one who needs to simp for us, who needs to please us, who needs to keep us happy so that they can keep us stick to them.
And what they need us for? Well, they need us, only for two things. First to make their life a little more convenient in some way. Being a woman She needs Somebody who can lead her. and the second reason she needs you for is to make herself feel good about herself. Being a woman she needs male validations and she gets those validations sometimes through your words, sometimes through special attention that you give to her and sometimes through physical intimacy that she enjoys with you.
Guys, being a woman She just wants the feeling of having a man in her life yes A man not a cry baby whom she can rely on whenever the need be and that’s it. You do not need to act too obsessed, you do not need to be too available. You do not need to police her all the time and you also do not need to get too emotional to prove anything to her.
Just be in your frame and keep your focus on yourself on your own financial growth and physical betterment so that you can keep on bringing more convenience to her and keep on giving her more pleasures. But you do it, I mean.. You stand by her only as long as she keeps you happy with her. As long as she pleases you and values you properly.
You must know your true value, you must know you are a Man and it’s she who needs you more. And be very clear also in your mind that you will stick to somebody only till she values you and pleases you properly. And if someday she stops pleasing you and stops treating you well, or may be if someday she decides to go away, you just let her go without any sobbing or crying.
Boys tell yourself you are a man and it’s you who is a prize. You don’t need to worry too much about them. You do not need to police them. Just keep your direction right. Keep your self busy in productive stuff. And tell yourself, in fact be very clear about it in your mind that any girl is yours, only as long as she is giving you sex and service. The day she stops giving you sex and service she is not yours anymore. You just forget about her, and just move on.
And seriously there is no need to feel any bad about it. Yes seriously i mean what to feel so sad about? There is somebody who doesn’t want to be your friends anymore. Why to even feel sad about her? Let her go. In fact Take it as an opportunity to go on a new adventure. An opportunity to have new experiences in life. There are literally plenty of girls on this earth to experience.
In fact I would recommend even while being with a woman you make sure there are others also already lined up to get into your company. And I am telling you as long as you stay hip and happening you will keep on getting them.
