When sex is something you both enjoy, then why only you sacrifice for it. Why don’t you make women pay for it. These movies have brainwashed you to think that women is herself a reward that you have to earn, you have to put in all these different efforts just to win a company of women or her love.
whereas in reality you the man are the prize that she needs to earn. You should understand that she needs you more than you need her. You Tell Me why there are so many stuff for women to make her look good. All that makeup, all those different variety of cloths and jewellery, plastic surgeries, silicon stuff and all why market is full of all that stuff.
Because it has always been like this. It’s women job to woo men, to keep him happy so that he stick to her not the other way round. Actually first movie brainwashed you to think that you men need women more than they need you, and it’s normal to put all that efforts just to win her love and then Porn has turned you weaker by turning just a need into a lust. And it’s that brainwashing and your lust which make you do stupid things.
Guys, You don’t need to do that. You don’t have to go through all that hula hoops to win some women’s company. Don’t be a sacrificial lamb. Sacrificing your hard earned money, your expertise, your peace of mind, your focus, your discipline, your own interests, just to be around women.
And I won’t blame women for that, for all the sufferings and troubles you are going through to impress women because It’s you boys who open the door for her to manipulate you, to hurt you, to play with your feelings and to make fun of you. and then you complain you cry, you shed tears. It’s your mistake. It’s you who give her power to play with you, it’s you who give power to her hands.
NO women can come and put a gun on your head and tell you to spend your money on her, to waste your time on her, to go over the board in an attempt to woo her. It’s you boys who are doing all that stupid things just because you are learning from wrong sources and that is movies and TV. You are not learning from real life going on around you or from somebody who knows it right, who has experience or can tell you the right thing.
Guys, It’s her job to sing and dance around you to keep you happy, but what’s happening is that she has made you dance around herself and you are willing to give in everything just to keep her around you. You are so scared that what if she leaves me, you don’t realise that there are millions and billions of women out in the world. You don’t realise she is not the only women on the earth.
And then these Bollywood movies they act as fuel in fire. You see Shahrukh khan crying for a girl and you think this is what will make her submit to you. You see arjun kapoor in some movie giving up everything just to get one girl, and you think this is what you need to do.
You see these movie actors bringing flowers, pedastilising the women in the movies and on tv and you think this is how the things work. And then you eventually find yourself standing alone cheated, hurt and in pain.
Because In reality it is not like this. In reality, You can’t change any body’s mood. If she is into you she is into you, if she is not into you, she is not into you. then nothing can make her submit herself to you.
It’s out and out her choice with whom she wants to share her body or with whom she wants to be and nothing in this entire world, no money, no gifts, no special treatment can make her change her mind. Only she will decide. That’s only and only her decision.
Always remember friends, women never give sex as a gift, she only gives sex to get the men she likes. The men she likes not the men who tries hard to make her like himself by doing all these larger than life things as they always show in movies.
In fact you know what happens, as soon as she realise that you are interested in her and she is safe with you, she immediately takes you as some fool who she can use to get favors from. May be to use as a slave whom she can call anytime to get some favors done for herself, or as somebody she can kill her time just talking about her life or to get just your attention.
You bring gifts for her, she won’t deny that. You take her to a date she won’t say no for that either. I mean Why would anybody say no for any special treatment! Even if You just chat with her on phone or talk to her, she won’t mind that also. She will not make it clear to you that she is not really into you, she won’t tell you this straight forwardly because she needs you for that special treatement or for that attention that she is getting for free. She will keep you lingering around herself.
She may make you feel like you are the only guy she is talking to or is friends with but you know what she has 10 15 20 guys like you in her phone she is talking to and call them her friends. She is just killing her time with you and you fool are weaving all these dreams in your brain, you like a fool keeping all those fake hopes in your brain. That if you conform, you will get her love some day.
Because this is what happens in those dumb shit movies, this is what they show in those movies and TV that if you keep up with the girls demands and keep doing slavery to her, keep giving her that special treatment she will give you sex some day. And you are waiting for that day, giving in your everything.
You will think in your brain that just because she is talking to you, chatting with you, sitting with you, giving you time she really likes you but in her brain she is taking you as a fool whom she is making dance around herself and getting her work done for free.
Never be that simp guys. Who gets used by these women just because of some fake hopes. Your life, your goals, your purpose is way more important than being with just some women.
If you guys just sit silently and calmly and think what you get from women and what women gets from you, you will yourself realise your worth. You will know that she gets more from you than what you get from her.
I already told you guys, be friendly there is no problem but never ever let anyone devalue your self worth never let anyone use you, disrespect you. And make you go astray from your main goals and purpose of life.
Just because somebody has written something in some movie or tv script it doesn’t make it right. You always think with your brain not with your reproductive organs. You make decisions in your life which makes your life better which helps you grow and improve.
And always always remember You are the prize. They need you more than you need them. Never give your attention, your company, your time for free. Make them earn it from you.
And get yourself out if this stupid oneitis ideology that movies are trying to inculcate into you. She is the one, she is my soul mate kind of mentality, get yourself of it. Let me tell you the reality, and the reality is there are no soul mates, and she is not the one.
Start living with abundance mindset, there are lots of women on this earth who are willing to be your friend, to be with you, the only thing you need to do is just fix your own life, fix your own mindset and attitude towards your life.
Never never try to please any women or try to win her company specially on the cost of your own self respect, your own goals, your own purpose, your own interests, your own health and your own life. Be a Men, be A men. Work on your health, on your finances, on your knowledge, on your personality.
And you know what, i dont know has anybody ever told you this or not but when you will learn to be a men, when you will learn to respect yourself, your time, your money, your knowledge, your life and will give some purpose to your life and start dedicating yourself for that purpose, you will find these women coming after you, trying to win you, please you, to be in your company.
Guys, instead of on them your focus must be on yourself. She focuses on you as long as you focus on yourself, the moment you shift your focus from yourself to them they lose their focus on you. keep it in mind guys. Simps attract over smart women and gets used. Men attract good quality women and gets love.
