Let’s break 16 myths regarding dating. Wrong dating advices that you have been learning from TV and movies. So let’s roll with it.
1. Be her friends. – As soon as you become her friends only You disappear from her eyes. In fact When some girl calls you her ‘friends only’ she wants to use you for something.
2. She is innocent. – She is just pretending to be. – She knows everything you know. And she also wants to do it all but the only thing is she is too picky about who to do it with.
3. Make her feel special – It only reduces your value before her. You reward her only for the efforts she does to please you.
4. Showing emotions – She takes you as a weak guy. You never show your weaknesses, insecurities and tears to women.
5. Showing extra care – actually annoys her. Obviously she doesn’t like clingy guys.
6. Being too available – She takes you as a needy guy. And it shows you have no life of your own.
7. Chase her and eventually she will give up – Chasing her will actually irritate her and repel her. Women are like cat. The more you chase women the more she will run away from you.
8. It will happen some day – First, waiting too much doesn’t worth it. Second when you fall for her game and start trying to woo her she starts looking at you as a weak needy guy. When you pedestelize them, When you spend your money on them, When you try to be nice to them, When you try to woo them, They don’t see you as an option, they see you as an Idiot…
9. Be nice to her and she will give you her love. – Be nice to her and she will either start using and mocking you or she may start treating you like her brother. You never become a women’s shoulder to cry, you never become her therapist.
10. You can make her mind by putting in efforts – it’s solely her decision. She won’t do it with you unless she herself decides to do it with you. No matter what you do you can never woo or convince any girl or women who isn’t genuinely into you. If she likes you, either she will openly tell you or will give you subtle cues & hints. But you can never win by any mean an uninterested women.
11. She is your soul mate – Women never love any men with same capacity as a men do to a women. She can leave you in dime of a moment. Never believe in one itis, nobody is your soul mate. always maintain a space in every relation and be prepared to walk away from anyone.
12. She will love you if you be faithful – Women would rather share a successful man then be attached to a faithful LOSER. Women want to be with men who other women want to f***, and another men want to be. She doesn’t like you for your niceness, she likes you more for the charisma that you carry with yourself.
13. You put her before you – Nothing is as fear inspiring and arousing for women as a man who is self aware of his own value. If you want to kill her attraction for you, You focus more on her and less on yourself. Women love men who respect themself more than anything.
14. She won’t like you if you tell her about other women – Women believes in pre selection. When she knows you are dating or you have dated other women and when she sees you at a party or at some event surrounded by girls or with some other girl she will find you more attractive. In fact lying to women or trying to manipulate them is a huge turn off for them. You do not need to hide it from her but at the same time you also do not need to tell them the exact number, you can rather come with some smart or funny reply to such questions.
15. You are responsible for her happiness – wrong advice again. Women are emotional creature and she becomes happy or sad as per her mood or emotions. You can’t do anything about it. In fact The more seriously you start taking women’s ever fluctuating mood the more problematic and dramatic it will get. You do not need to take her seriously, just listen to her problems and move on to your life.
16. Give her what she wants – No you never give her what she wants you just give her what she needs. A woman is naturally greedy and her wants never ends and if you will start focusing on providing her for everything she asks from you, you will entrap yourself into a never ending cycle.
Always remember in case of women the less you do is always more. The guys who try hard to be with some woman, to convince some woman always fail in getting that woman. However, The guys who do less who stay in their frame stand better chance with women.
